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A companion edition of the deck for fathers and adult children who are currently estranged or in a season of real distance. Pre-orders haven't opened yet — join the waitlist now and this price is locked in for you.

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Healing the Distance — 50-Card Conversation Deck

For when the distance is further — written specifically for fathers and adult children navigating estrangement or real distance right now, not just a general reconciliation. It's one of two decks in the Say It Now pre-order — Grow Together is the other, for relationships that are already steady and just want to go deeper.

✓ 50 cards with softer entry points than the original deck, built for where real distance actually starts
✓ A path toward the harder questions, instead of starting there
✓ Printable PDF — print at home on card stock, or send to a local print shop
✓ US Letter size, ready to cut — works alongside or entirely separate from Grow Together

Pairs well with the free Father & Child Workbook — a joint fill-along companion for two people, not one.

Not the right starting point? See Grow Together instead →

Healing the Distance — Card Game (PDF)

£25

≈ $31.75 USD · ≈ ₦49,200 NGN

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Three real cards from the deck.

A category tag, one honest question, and space to actually answer it out loud — this is exactly what's inside.

Get to Know Each Other card: What's one thing I do that reminds you of yourself?

Say It Now card: Say one thing you're proud of me for that you've never actually said out loud.

Grow Together card: What's one tradition you want us to start together?

Why this deck

Why Healing the Distance.

✓ You want back in, but you don't know how to start without it feeling too big, too soon.
✓ Every question is written softer on purpose — built for real distance, not just quiet.
✓ Something to hold in your hand when showing up with just words feels too hard.
✓ No pressure to fix everything in one sitting. One card, one honest question — that's enough.
✓ Built specifically for estrangement and falling-out, not adapted from a "close family" deck.
✓ A path toward the harder conversations, instead of demanding them from card one.
✓ Something concrete to bring to the reconciliation you've been putting off.

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Father & Child Workbook

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Free forever, no card required — twelve shared prompts, answered separately, then read out loud together. The paid Companion Workbook goes further: 36 prompts across six movements, a signed agreement, a sealed letter for five years from now, and a page for recording each other's voice. See the Edition →

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