One card per category
Get to Know Each Other. Understand Each Other. Say It Now. Grow Together.
Each of the 50 cards looks like this — a category tag, one honest question, and space to actually answer it out loud.
No sign-up needed — here's exactly what you'll get. 50 cards across four categories, built for a father and his son or daughter to talk, not just co-exist.
Both decks are part of the Say It Now series — same method, different starting points, depending on how things stand right now.
For relationships that are basically fine, but could be closer. Starts light — Get to Know Each Other — before working up to Understand Each Other, Say It Now, and Grow Together. Buy this if: you talk, but rarely about anything that matters, and you want a low-stakes way to go deeper without it feeling like a big, heavy conversation.
For relationships with real distance in them right now — estrangement, a falling-out, years of not really speaking. Every question is written softer on purpose, so it opens a door instead of forcing one. Buy this if: the relationship needs repair before it needs closeness, and jumping straight to "grow together" questions would feel too soon.
Not sure which fits? If you're not currently estranged or avoiding each other, start with Grow Together. If there's real distance — you don't talk, or talking feels tense — start with Healing the Distance instead. Either way, nothing stops you from getting both.
Each of the 50 cards looks like this — a category tag, one honest question, and space to actually answer it out loud.
Shuffle, draw a card, read the question out loud. Inspired by Dad in the Mirror, but works entirely on its own — no reading required first.
Want the full story behind the cards? Dad in the Mirror is the book these questions come from — ebook from £8, paperback from £15.55.
Get the Book →You're not estranged, you're not fighting — you just want the relationship to go deeper than "how's work." Here's why fathers, sons and daughters actually buy this deck.
This free 12-page workbook is the starting point — a father and his son or daughter each answer the same twelve prompts on their own side of the page, then share what they wrote, out loud, together. Want to go further? The full Companion Workbook has 36 core prompts across six movements, plus ninety more questions, in an 80+ page edition.
A no-signup preview of the Grow Together deck — swipe right to see the next card, left to go back, and read each one out loud together. No app, no typing, no email required.
Try the Free Swipe Preview →"Fifteen real cards, swiped through in under two minutes — no email, no names, just the questions."
— what the free preview feels likeA 50-card companion edition of the deck, written specifically for fathers and adult children who are currently estranged or in a season of real distance — softer entry points, and a path toward the harder questions instead of starting there.
Join Waitlist — £25"If today isn't the day you reconcile, let it at least be the day you stop pretending the distance isn't there."
— Healing the DistanceThis isn't the deck for a relationship that just needs deepening — it's for one that needs repair first. Here's why fathers and adult children navigating real distance buy this deck.
Join the pre-order waitlist for Grow Together, get the book it's built on, or start the free Father & Child Workbook together this week.